“Love yourself; you won’t regret it ever.” –M.F. Moonzajer
It is simply human psychology, we feel good about ourselves when we have accomplished something, when people think well about us or when we are recognized and our hard work is acknowledged and we feel the opposite when we fail in life, when having no once around to make us feel good about ourselves, isn’t that too much dependence? It is, but do you really have to depend this much? Actually NO! you only have to be YOURSELF and keep going your way and never be disappointed.
Try following the below mentioned ways to “feel good about yourself”.
Life isn’t fair and no one perfect so you are. There is no shame in it, every body have their individuality and whoever doesn’t appreciate that become a “no one”. Accept yourself as you are and love it.
“Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” –Dr. Seuss
All the negative thoughts, like envy, jealousy, greed, grudge, self-hate, you have to leave behind any idea of negativity. Be positive so you can feel good about yourself.
Achieve high self-esteem and Confidence
Not feeling great about you come from low self-esteem and low confidence, get to a higher level of it to see yourself as good as you are.
“If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong.”
? Masaru Emoto
Be proud of your skills and Strengths
People often cry over what they are not and fail to appreciate what they ARE. You were born with some skills, if you don’t know them yet get to know them polish them. If you do so you will never feel bad about yourself.
“Once you figure out who you are and what you love about yourself, I think it all kind of falls into place.” – Jennifer Aniston
Don’t whine about bad times
Bad times are the part of life as the good ones are. You cannot blame yourself for them.There are the times that make us more knowledgeable of ourselves and stronger than we are.“Sometimes it’s the toughest moments that you learn the most about yourself, and the more you know yourself, the less you are willing to give away.”
? Jennifer Love Hewitt
Never quit, keep on leading toward your goals.“Hard work makes you feel good because you have accomplished something.”
? Alcurtis Turner
“Forgiving is healing, if you don’t forgive yourself you will always feel bad about yourself.” Mistakes are what we all can do and We Do. but keeping us bind to them is for nothing good. Just forgive yourself and move on.
Have you ever considered how blessed you are? Be thankful to GOD for making you a complete person.
Look good and be good
Looking good can also boost your self-confidence and self-esteem.“Be who you are,nobody likes to be copied!”
? Morgan Musseau
Give less attention to what others think
You will never be able to know yourself better if you keep on thinking about what others says about you. You are someone who can know yourself better than anyone else. So know yourself and be yourself.
Make good friends
Make good friends who make you feel good and accept your originality.
Reminder: Keep Healthy eating, sleeping and drinking habits and stay healthy.