Confident look and confident behavior is very much important to throw good impression on the people with whom you are living, studying, playing or working.
By believing in yourself and saying to yourself that yes I can do this you will be able to overcome your shortcomings and then with hard work when you will become able to do hard task that you had not done before, this will boost your confidence
so it is must to believe in yourself and start doing work hard for those things about which you may have thought you cannot do. Some important points you should have in mind to build your confidence are given below.
According to the Barrie Davenport, “low self-confidence is not a life sentence. Self-confidence can be learned, practiced and mastered just like any other skill and once you master it, everything in your life will change the better.
Be presentable because people do judge you with your outer personality and appearance. With good and decent dressing you can have confident look so always try to make your appearance presentable. This thing will make you feel better about yourself and others are more likely to perceive as a successful and self confident as well.
Change your body language and posture because just the simple act of pulling your shoulders back gives others the impression that you are a confident person. Smile also plays an important role to make your look confident, it will not only make you feel better but will make feel others more comfortable around you.
Low self-confidence is often caused by negative thoughts running through our minds on an endless track. If you are constantly bashing yourself and saying that you are not good enough, not attractive, not smart enough and on and on, you are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So always try to think positive and when the next time you hear the negativity in your mind, switch it immediately to a positive affirmation and keep it up until it hits the caliber of a self-confidence boost.
Try to speak slowly and clearly, researches have proved that those who take time to speak clearly feel more confident and appears more self-confident to others. Life is full of challenges so never give up and never accept failure because there is a solution of everything.
Jack Canfield says, “Self acknowledgement and appreciation are what give you the insight and awareness to move forward toward higher goals and accomplishments.” To boost your confidence level, acknowledge your achievements and make a list of your fabulous qualities, paste this list at certain places and revisit it when you feel down.