Often wives are found complaining that their husband are not even talking to them and want the attention of their husband back. Those wives who have lost the attention of husband must try to get it back before that the condition becomes worse.
They must take initiatives to talk unless the situation becomes fester. It is believed that a woman has to sacrifice her ego in marriage relationship and it is very right.
It is not about that you have to leave your self-respect but just for the sake of your relation if you have to knee down before your husband then do not feel shy because this step will increase your respect in your spouse eyes.
Do everything to save your relation. But why after some years husband and wife lost respect for each other and they become so ruthless. In fact it comes to observation that they talk very harsh words to each other.
They spend a great time with each other and instead of respecting and enhancing the mutual love they start hating each other. Even such condition comes when they even like to talk to each other. To resolve the matter and to get your husband back some ideas are here for you:
Do not try to be superior to your husband:
When you are discussing something with your husband does not try to win over the arguments. In the effort of winning over the arguments you can lose your respect or even your husband.
Not this thing is only for wives but husband should also have this thing in mind that do not say such harsh words to each other that would become difficult for the other person to forget. Give and take is the key of success for a healthy relationship.
If at a time one person is in anger the other person should control his or her temperament and should keep quite. If both will lose the temper then the result would be just break up.
Do not expect your spouse a mind reader:
You must be expressive in your relationship and should describe your inner feelings and sentiments to other person. Your words and gesture should be one and if ever you got some wrong thoughts of your husband or wife try to make that clear by discussing.
If you just stay silent and keep the little doubt in mind that will increase day by day and will harm your relationship. And if you ever think that there is something in mind of your spouse then you yourself go ahead and with you polite gesture.
and love words go face to face with him or her and ask making him or her sure that you are ready to listen and accept everything the other person has in mind.
Make amendments in your behavior:
If all people around you start becoming hateful then it is the high time to think where you yourself are wrong. Same is the case in marriage relation you can bring change in your actions and behavior if you cannot change the other person. Seeing at your mild behavior the other person will feel inclination toward you and make him or her sure that you really want to live with him or her.
Make your communicating skills better:
Often husband stay quite and there is various reasons for that. A wife may speak too much even to the extent of irritation that makes her husband to simply shut his mouth to let the discussion come to an end. Too many arguments can irritate any person and if you do not accept any of your mistakes then also he will think it futile to speak to you.
You must give him the confidence that he can talk to you and you are ready to obey. You must choose words that can explain what you actually have in mind. Do not make the conversation confusing.