If you are blessed with one or more children and you want to make your child a perfect human being then you must know about your child his/her needs, temperament, behavior etc. understanding the child is the most important topic because it is very helpful to make a child the best person that every parent should learn.
First thing that parent should keep in mind that all children have unique personality traits and according to psychology a child builds up his personality at the age of five and which he learns at this age remains consistent throughout life.
One of the best and easiest ways to understand your child is observing, observe your child in hidden way that your child could not feel. Observe your children as they eat, drink, play, sleep and behave with others like friends or maids or servants.
Understanding you child is one of the effective ways of becoming successful parents. This post is designed to help understand your responsibilities and understanding your kids regarding parents.
Spend time with your children and if you are a businessman or working lady then take time out of your busy schedule for your children. Talk to your children and listen to them also because it is very crucial to gaining information about their thinking and perceiving.
Create a friendly environment and always deal your child with love, make him feel that he is very important figure in your life and try to listen and solve his/her problems. By doing this your child will easily share all problems with you and will also feel confident and happier.
If you are qualified parent then try to educate your child yourself, by doing this you can understand your child very well and can know about his interest in study, intelligence and so on. If you have not enough time to study your child then you should notice his study status.
Fix a day and in that day check all of his notebooks, books, drawing books, school bag and stationary in this way you will know about her study and care for his books and other things also.
When your child is showing aggressive tendencies, you should try to find the reasons behind your child’s aggressive behavior. You can check and observe your environment at home, school and social circle and community of your child. The conflicts, grudges and arguments are the main cause of aggressive behavior so try to sort out the problems and try to live calm in front of your children.
If you appear calm and reassuring your child is more likely to remain and becomes calm, and fells less anxious because your children always try to copy you so if you want to make your child a perfect person then you should focus on your own personality.
Your tone of voice, eyes contact, body language, facial expression and communication with others are the things that your child observes from you and trey to adopt so try to live perfect in front of your children.