We all know how important is the discipline, anything without discipline is messy and so our lives. If the growing children are not learning discipline they are surely going to cause a lot of troubles as they grow up, they will then become hard to deal with, they will actually test your patience and limits. Bringing up a child is never easy, the kids are challenging when they lack discipline, moreover they will embarrass you in front of your friend’s kids who are more sophisticated and have better manners. To avoid all the troubles start teaching your kids the discipline and good manners from today when they are young you can easily make them learn whatever you want to.
See the following methods you can use to discipline your kids very effectively.
Reward for behaving good
Parents are usually good at giving punishments for the bad manners and discipline, they underground children, cut the pocket money, make no TV/video game time but sometimes they forget to reward the good behaviors. Rewarding your child when he shows good discipline is the motivation for your child to be better and thing makes the good habits. Reward is the ultimate motivation, no matter what the age of a person is so never forget to reward your child.
Set clear rules for all
Discipline requires some rules to be made first. Make some rules for all the things your child do, set the limitations and boundaries. The rules should be clear and you must keep telling your child until they learn those rules and act according to them. The other important thing is the rules must be for all the kids not for one or the other. If you give exemption to one the other one will automatically stop following.
Stick to rules
Rules once made should be followed forever or until the time they are required to be followed. Be strict about the rules, don’t do amendments and changes in rules, moreover you should consistently follow the rules yourself to make a positive impact about following rules.
Show model discipline
Discipline is practice of training someone to follow some rules or a code of conduct to survive at a place, all the parents who are not very disciplined are likely to have ill disciplined kids; it is very true that children learn from their parents. If you want your child to be a disciplined one, the one who have manners and shows respect, take care of himself and his room too, you got to show him how to do that. Be good at following all kind of rules, the traffic rules, the public event rules and the rules made by you at home, you should be the first person to follow those rules.
Give them rights
While enforcing rules you should be strict but does that mean you have to take the right of speaking up from your kids? Give your children write to suggest and choose as well but don’t spoil them by forcing too many rules and restrictions.
too many Restriction increase the charm of forbidden, be tactful and deal with your child positively, show them the negative side of forbidden things.