You see those well outspoken, confident people who always win and get away with what they want to achieve, are they the most beautiful or the most genius people in the world? Well they are not. Every person on the surface of earth has its own flaws and insecurities, but some of them cope better with their flaws than the others and that makes the difference. It may be difficult for shy, introvert, self-conscious and people who waste too much time dwelling on their insecurities to build confidence.
You know yourself better
More than anyone else, you are the one who know yourself and understand, don’t go to people to know your good and bad qualities, think about it yourself and evaluate yourself, admire yourself for the positive traits you possess and make a plan to get rid of your negative qualities, even if you can’t that’s ok. The point here is to feel confident you have to stop listening to other’s view points about you. The people are never going to accept your flaws, and this shouldn’t make any difference. Just stay positive about yourself and keep going.
Let go of your insecurities
Generally insecurities originate from the time when you were emotionally hurt, when someone did or said anything that made your heart aches, Go back in time and see how all those painful moment started, from where those hurting memories originated, this is really therapeutic and can help you to heal and let go of those insecurities. You have to let go of the ‘old you’ and allow new beginning. Let go off all the insecurities that push you back, only then you can become confident.
Embrace your imperfection
“No one is perfect and perfection is a myth.” Until the time you stop lingering to perfection, you are just going to be disappointed and will always feel uncomfortable and shaky in whatever you do, when you realize and admit the fact that there is nothing like Perfection, you automatically become more confident and you will find yourself comfortable and more relaxed. This is feeling of being at peace and then you will also be able to pay gratitude.
Being sociable mean you are more able to meet people and have good relations with others. This is quite helpful in building confidence level. When you meet new people you are more likely to open up, if you try you can have great conversations and this puts you on a higher scale of confidence. You become aware of your communications skills only when you communicate with others.
Build your skills
This is the best way you can come out of your shell and win over the world. See what you are most interested in; it can be anything, anything you want to do from heart, building your skills make you able to standout and get people’s acknowledgment which eventually boosts you confidence. Be good at one thing and pursue it. The greater the efforts you the better you will feel in the end.
Until you have a higher level of confidence look confident, you can’t look easy to break to anyone in your life, by practicing confident you might test your wings and learn that you can actually fly. You can be confident:
- when you are well prepared for an event,
- you are well dressed
- And you are sure about your point of view.