Marriage is a very sensitive topic to talk on, especially when it is an Islamic marriage. Islam has prohibited many of the laws that are being happing by the non-Muslims. As they say’s that husband and wife are equal in every step of their lives. But it is not actually a like. They have some limits regarding each other’s respect. As Allah gives a man more priority than a wife in Islam, but women got respect in Islam. When they got married they are n9ot well aware of any think. So they need to have some knowledge about the Islamic ethics. So here I am going to help you out by presenting the meaning full Islamic ethics.
Yasir Qadir said: “The most successful marriage is not when you can live in peace with your wife, but when you can’t live in peace without her”.
Don’t beat up your wife: Islam has totally prohibited the concept of beating. As according to the Quran:
Hadith the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) is reported to have said: “How does anyone of you beat his wife as he beats the stallion camel and then he may embrace (sleep with) her?”
Kindness: the relationship between the husband and wife is very kind full they need to be kin on each other. Especially a man should be kind to his wife. He needs to control his aggressiveness upon his wife. As according to Islam: ” He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts) verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.” (Quran: Ar-Rum 21). Don’t ever recognize the positive aspects of your wives and vice versa.
They are liable to secure themselves from the other man. As they have to hide they and also their private parts from the other man because a woman is liable to appear in front of her husband just. As saying in Quran:
وَقُلْ لِلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا ۖ وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِهِنَّ ۖ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِنَّ أَوْ نِسَائِهِنَّ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُنَّ أَوِ التَّابِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُولِي الْإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُوا عَلَىٰ عَوْرَاتِ النِّسَاءِ ۖ وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِنْ زِينَتِهِنَّ ۚ وَتُوبُوا إِلَى اللَّهِ جَمِيعًا أَيُّهَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ
“And say to the believing women that they should cast down their looks and guard their private parts, and not display their ornaments except what appears thereof, and let them wear their head coverings and not display their ornaments except to their husbands or their fathers. Or the father of their husbands, their sons. or the sons of their husbands or their brothers or their brother’s sons or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or those whom their right hands possess, or male servants not having need (of women), or the children who have not attained knowledge of what is hidden of women; and let them not strike their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may be known; and turn to Allah all of you, so that you may be successful (24:31).”
Co-operate with your husband’s life style:
Whenever you got married to your partner, you need to understand him, his feelings, his worries, and his everything. Just dissolve your with his feelings. Man doesn’t need to change themselves because a woman has to scarify to trade herself in to a new environment.
Husband also needs to co-operate with her wife’s family:
Many of the men didn’t pay such intentions to their wife’s family. But according to Islam a man is also liable to make respect for his wife’s family.