For a strong relation equal participation and co operation from both sides is required. It is a very critical situation for someone whether to continue the relation or not when he or she feels the other person entirely change of what he or she had expected.
First of all you must be clear about yourself, what you want in your spouse because if you are confuse about yourself this can create problems for you and also for the other person. You must be clear about what your ideal is and for what you actually desire.
Making haste in relations can also bring problem in future as just by being infatuated you cannot take decision of living with someone for whole life. People cannot judge someone in one meeting only and they must give time to each other to know either they can develop any mutual compatibility or not.
The marriage is not a joke and it gives pain a lot when their came the situation of divorce. So be careful about selecting your partner and some things that you must know about each other and how to get to know are given here:
Must look at likings and disliking:
Two opposite person cannot make a long relationship instead they will split up soon or they will feel their relation a burden on them and ultimately you would like to get rid of these problems. So to know each other is important and likings and disliking must be shared.
If you are talkative person but the other person do not talk a lot then this thing can create mess for both. Compatibility between couples leaves less room for any kind of mess ups. If one person like the cleanliness but the other is of lazy nature then this will also disturb the relation.
A man who wants to have a submissive wife will not tolerate an independent woman who loves to wander around like free soul.
Observe the other person in anger:
Mostly relationships come to an end because of using bad language. You must observe the person with whom you are how he or she talk and react in anger. If that is bearable for you then it is fine but if you think the other person becomes violent and uncontrollable then It is time to think about your relationship.
Learn about his or her dreams:
If you are an ambitious person and want to have luxuries life then see if your partner is ambitious just like you or not. If the other person is happy with his moderate income and does not want to look forward then it can be difficult for you to stay with him.
And if you are a man then must look at the desires of woman because if she want to have high style life that is not affordable for you then talk to her if she can live with you with simple life style or not.
See if he/she is trustworthy:
Husband and wife need to share a lot o secrets and it is duty of both to hide each other secrets from every one. But this can only happen if there is mutual trust between them. You must observe that the other person can understand your feelings and sentiments or he or she make fun of them.
This will become difficult if you see the other person cannot understand your feelings and emotions. For women an ideal man is that who help her to live in her own world and who can fulfill her dreamy world. But if a man just takes that as nonsensical behavior then this will be very painful for women.
Every one of us desire for a person who love and accept us the way we are. An ideal person is that who make you believe that you are his or her ideal. So before going to peak on relationship must learn about these things whether you can spend your whole life with him or her or not and do not make decisions on your emotions basis but try to be realistic.