Marriage is kind of responsibility on you, for your future lives. You need to follow some following ways to tackle with your new responsibility after getting married.
Try to understand your husband:
A newly married girl’s responsibility is to understand your husband and to show interest in him. She needs to understand him well, that what he likes or what he loves, or what he wants from you. So just be a good friend of him and try to understand his all interests and his nature. “I know what it is to live entirely for and with what I love best on earth. I hold myself supremely blest — blest beyond what language can express; because I am my husband’s life as fully as he is mine.”
said Charlotte Bronte.
Adjust with your in laws:
You need to adjust with your in laws, because you are bound to respect them and adjust in with them, they will be your best friend if you got adjust inn, or they will be the most horrible if you didn’t adjust inn. “And your Lord has commanded that you shall not serve (any) but Him, and that you shall show goodness to your parents. If either or both of them reach old age with you, say not to them (so much as) “Ugh” nor chide them, and speak to them a generous word.” Quran 17:23
Get up early in the morning:
You need to get up early in the morning if you recently got married. It will help you to make good impression on your in law as well as your husband if you did a good job by making great breakfast for your new family. This will make your husband and your family impressed by you. Try to make breakfast for your family at daily routine.
Spend quality time with your husband:
Whenever he will be home back after a hectic routine of job, just hug him once tightly and kiss him on cheeks, this is the best way to overwhelmed the tiredness of your husband and makes him feel pleasant and fresh. “You must make an effort to appreciate what you have, who loves you and who cares for you, because you’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they are no longer beside you. Spend lots of quality time with the people you love. Someday you will either regret not doing so, or you will say, I’m glad I did”. Said by Melchor Lim quotes
Limit down your visit to your parent’s home:
After getting married don’t try to visit to your parents home all of the time. You need to get adjust in your new routine. It will be hard for you to get involve in your new environment promptly. But you will get settled up after 4-5 months in your daily routine. So limit down to visit your parents home.
Learn to cook well:
A wife should learn to cook well, because in laws and husband demands a good food by her newly married bride. So you need to know cooking well to make your family happy for you. “There is no spectacle on earth more appealing than that of a beautiful woman in the act of cooking dinner for someone she loves.” Said Thomas Wolfe
Listen to your husband:
Just go on following what your husband demands for, because he can demand for anything from you, it is a right of him. If he demands for sex then you are liable to have it.
Respect your in laws and husband:
You need to respect your in laws and husband because if you respect the parents of your husband, then your husband tend towards you to respect you. Hojjat al-Islam Husain Ansariyan
those are limits set by God: those who obey God and His Apostle will be
admitted to Gardens with rivers flowing beneath, to abide therein
(forever) and that will be the Supreme achievement. [Holy Quran: Nisaa 4:13]
Keep secrets of your husband:
You need to keep secret of your husband because to make your relationship and trust strong between you, then you have to keep your husband secrets. “The Qur’an praises virtuous wives, who are obedient, guarding in secret what Allah has guarded”…. (4:34)
Stay and help your husband in troubles:
Help your husband if he is in trouble. Try to solve his problems, or if you are not able to solve his problem then you need to stand with him and support him. If a financial problem occurs somehow do support him financially.
Appropriate housing is the best way to provide a pleasant environment your family. Indulged in your daily routine, it will help you to makes you appropriate in housing.