Things to Know Before You Get Engaged

Getting engage with someone you love is the most important phase of anyone’s life, as it changes almost everything in your life, from the closet to you way living and for the CHANGE to be positive and EVERLASTING there are things that must be known by both people. “A long-lasting marriage is built by two people who believe in -and live by- the solemn promise they made.”-Darlene Schacht


You’re true feelings

for not the sake of anyone else but yours you must know the difference between “LOVE, LIKE AND LUST”, and from all three you know who you should marry with. Here I am not suggesting you to marry only someone you love, but someone you think you can love.
“By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.” -Socrates

Goals in life

its better that you know the Life direction of the person you are willing spend your life with. It makes things out and you might just avoid a surprise coming after marriage.

Each others Faiths

that is actually something quite important in everyone’s life, It’s good if you know what other person believe in, and have faith on and so you can make no difference later on and be respectful.

Best and worst qualities

“A happy marriage doesn’t mean you have a perfect spouse or a perfect marriage. It simply means you’ve chosen to look beyond the imperfections in both.”-Fawn Weaver
knowing each other’s good qualities is not that necessary as it won’t make anything bad, but not knowing the worst ones may just leave your mind blown.

Spending habits and financial state

how you spend money and how the person spends it can be significant right after you are engaged, you may want to shop the whole plaza and your other half wants to save it all and vice versa. Other than this having to spend life not only the love is required, Money talk is necessary pals.

Each other’s families and Friends

if you haven’t met his closest friends and family yet, don’t marry yet; to me it only shows you are not that important. Knowing each other’s friends reveals a lot of secrets you see. J
“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” -Dave Meurer

The past

Concealing the facts from the past but then encountering the time other persons knows it all can make relationship weak, so let sincerely other person aware of any serious relationship or past marriage or child.

Value of Marriage

“Marriage is neither heaven nor hell, it is simply purgatory.” – Abraham Lincoln
before getting engaged you must know the value of and meaning of marriage, for it to last forever. In many cases of divorce people were not ready for the responsibilities that marrying comes with.

“Marriage is a commitment- a decision to do, all through life, that which will express your love for one’s spouse.”

How to fight

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” Sam Keen
The secret to a happy marriage is if you can be at peace with someone within four walls, if you are content because the one you love is near to you, either upstairs or downstairs, or in the same room, and you feel that warmth that you don’t find very often, then that is what love is all about.

Sex and Intimacy

Well, It is making me blush, as I am I am 15 at heart… but yes it is important to know other person’s preferences, in order to make a happy after marriage life.

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